Real Love

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Love does not envy. Love is not rude. Love is not proud. Love is not easily angered. Love keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not boast…wait boast?


These were my thoughts the other night as I yet again lay awake trying to sort out even more of the crazy that continues in a good way for God.


Love does not boast. Was God intending this for those who are in love not to try and one up their love? Or is this meant as a reminder to not boast about the works we do out of love trying to fulfill what God has called us to? Like the people who sure, do many amazing works, but always have to run around after and be like a little puppy jumping around or doing tricks; the “look at me! Look at meeeeee!” style. Maybe it’s both. The logic of it being both helped me sleep that night instead of researching more. Now though, I need to actually learn from this that God has clearly given me to learn from.

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